千万不要因为一时的感动和一时的寂寞就降低了自己本来择偶标准，不然以后你将面临痛苦纠结的人生。
Do not because of a moment of feeling and loneliness of the lower standards of their original mate, otherwise you will face a painful tangle of life.
或许你眼中的那个人并没有你想象中那么好，只是因为你喜欢，所以你便自己给他镀上了一层金，让他在你眼里变得闪闪发光。
Maybe the person in your eyes is not as good as you think, just because you like it, so you yourself give him a layer of gold, let him become shining in your eyes.
现实告诉我们，那些平平淡淡的感情才最经得起时间的考验，而那些一开始就很炙热的感情，一般都经历不起时间的考验，死得比较快。
Reality tells us, those flatly light feeling just can stand the test of time most, and those at the beginning are very hot feeling, generally can"t stand the test of time, die faster.
爱情里，不要因为一点点小事情就想要结束这段感情，其实有些事情是恋爱中必须要去面对，你就算换了一个人，以后你还会到这样的问题，这些事都是不能避免的。
In love, do not want to end the relationship just because of a little thing, in fact, there are some things that must be faced in love, even if you change a person, you will have such problems in the future, these things can not be avoided.
如果你不喜欢，那么就要明确地拒绝，记住，你有拒绝别人的权利，所以你不用为拒绝别人而感到任何的愧疚。所以如果你对一个人一开始就没有感觉，那么你就要尽快拒绝，千万不要因为不好意思拒绝而暂时答应，这样做只会让问题升级，让你们两个人都会活在痛苦之中。
If you don"t like it, say no explicitly, remembering that you have the right to say no, so you don"t have to feel guilty about saying no. So if you don"t have feelings for someone in the first place, say no as soon as possible. Don"t be too embarrassed to say no temporarily. Doing so will only escalate the problem and leave both of you in pain.
其实人都是会变得，在一段长久的感情里，如果对方开始改变的话，那么你最好也改变，最不能要的就是控制对方，不让他去改变，当然，这样的改变是建立在往好的方向发展的那种改变。
In a long-term relationship, if the other person starts to change, then you better change too. The last thing you need is to control the other person from changing. Of course, this change is based on change for the better.
不管爱情还是生活，你自己做不到的事情，就没有资格要求别人去做到，这是做人原则，也是底线。
Whether in love or in life, if you can"t do it yourself, you are not qualified to ask others to do it. This is the principle of life and the bottom line.
想要一段感情，能够经营的长久，那么当你没遇到矛盾时，一定要先解决自己的情绪，然后再好好地去解决问题，因为当你还有情绪的时候，根本就解决不了问题，只会让问题变得更糟糕。
If you want a relationship to last long, then when you don"t have a conflict, you have to deal with your emotions first, and then you have to deal with the problem, because when you still have emotions, you can"t solve the problem, it will only make the problem worse.
千万不要去相信时间可以改变一个人，时间只会让一个人变得更老，根本就没有办法让这个人变得更好，你所需要相信的，是这个人的本身所为你做出的改变。
Do not believe that time can change a person, time will only make a person become older, there is no way to make this person better, you need to believe, is the person itself.
结语：其实在爱情里，很多吵架都是没有意义的，因为不管你输了还是赢了，你都会经历一次不开心。
Conclusion: In fact, in love, many quarrels are meaningless, because no matter you lose or win, you will experience a unhappy time.
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