我们都知道爱是双向选择的结果。很多时候,一个人的爱情之所以不顺利,往往与他的性格密切相关。
We all know that love is the result of two-way choice. Many times, the reason why a person"s love is not smooth is often closely related to his character.
事实上,外部世界的作用根本没有那么重要。他的心不够坚定,不管你做了多少,都没用。
In fact, the role of the outside world is not so important at all. His heart is not firm enough. No matter how much you do, it"s useless.
爱你的人总是把你放在第一位,不愿意让你受委屈,甚至把你的每一句话都当作阅读理解。
People who love you always put you first and don"t want to let you be wronged. They even read and understand every word you say.
如果他主动告诉你这些不愉快的事情,并且每次都非常小心,像个孩子一样,渴望你的安慰,害怕你的不喜欢,他会对你有好感。
If he takes the initiative to tell you these unpleasant things, and is very careful every time, like a child, eager for your comfort and afraid of your dislike, he will have a good impression on you.
与其像怨恨的女人一样等待爱情,不如做自己的战士,勇敢地前进。
Instead of waiting for love like a resentful woman, it"s better to be your own soldier and move forward bravely.
如果对方担心你,假装失去联系,你就会理解。
If the other person is worried about you and pretends to lose touch, you will understand.
你还不如做个门外汉。你只关心你感兴趣的人和事。无法融入的群体不会强行融入,不喜欢你的人也不会故意取悦你。
You might as well be a layman. You only care about people and things that interest you. Groups that cannot integrate will not integrate forcibly, and people who don"t like you will not deliberately please you.