一、人，到了一定年龄，都是带着点心事，带着点难言的痛，每天笑嘻嘻地生活下去的。
People, at a certain age, are living happily every day with snacks and some unspeakable pain.
二、生活中本就充满了失望，不是所有的等待都能如愿以偿。你且笑对，不必慌张。
Life is full of disappointment, not all the waiting can be fulfilled. You laugh right, don"t panic.
三、和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，足矣。
Communicate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and go with humorous people. If this is the case in life, it will be enough.
四、与其埋怨世界，不如改变自己，管好自己的心，做好自己的事，比什么都强，人生无完美，曲折亦风景。
Rather than complaining about the world, it is better to change ourselves, manage our hearts and do our own things well than anything else. Life is not perfect, twists and turns are scenery.
五、一个人自愈的能力越强，才越有可能接近幸福。做一个寡言，却心有一片海的人，不伤人害己，于淡泊中，平和自在。
The stronger a person"s self-healing ability, the more likely he is to approach happiness. Being a man of few words, but with a sea in his heart, does not hurt others or harm himself. In indifference, he is peaceful and free.
六、人生中出现的一切，都无法占有，只能经历。我们只是时间的过客，总有一天，我们会和所有的一切永别。眼前的，好好珍惜；过去的，坦然面对。该来的，欣然接受！
Everything that appears in life can not be possessed, but can only be experienced. We are just passers-by of time. One day, we will say goodbye to everything forever. Take good care of what is in front of you, and face it calmly in the past. It"s time to come and embrace it!
七、每一夜都能干干净净、心安理得、筋疲力尽地入睡；每一天都能清清爽爽、心平气和、精神充沛地醒来，这就是最好的生活。
Every night can be clean, safe, exhausted to sleep; every day can be refreshing, calm, energetic wake up, this is the best life.
八、很多人不需要再见，因为只是路过而已，遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。
Many people don"t need to see each other again, because it"s just passing by. Forgetting is the best memory we can give each other.
九、不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。
Do not be emotional, do not secretly miss, do not look back. Live a different life for yourself. Be obedient, not all fish will live in the same ocean.
十、看清了很多人，却不能随意拆穿；讨厌着很多人，却又不能轻易翻脸。有时候，生活就是要逼自己变得逆来顺受，宠辱不惊。
See a lot of people, but can not be easily dismantled; hate a lot of people, but can not easily turn their faces. Sometimes, life is to force oneself to become resigned, spoiled and humiliated.
十一、得不到回应的热情，要懂得适可而止。不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。当别人不需要你的时候你要学会自己走开，多一点自知之明少一点自作多情。
If you can"t get a response, you need to know how to stop. Do not treat every enthusiasm, do not please any indifference. When other people don"t need you, you should learn to walk away and be more self-aware and less self-affectionate.
十二、有的东西就像手中沙，越是紧握，就会流失得越快。努力了，珍惜了，问心无愧。其他的，交给命运。
Some things are like sand in your hand. The more you grip them, the faster they will run away. Work hard, cherish, and have a clear conscience. Others, to fate.
十三、有些事，想多了头疼，想通了心疼。所以，该睡就睡，该玩就玩。不必遗憾，若是美好，叫做精彩，若是糟糕，叫做经历。
Some things, think about more headaches, think through the heartache. So sleep when you want, play when you want. Don"t regret, if it"s good, it"s wonderful, if it"s bad, it"s experience.
十四、有些事不说是个结，说了是道疤，结可以解开，疤却永远都在。与其掏心掏肺说的真心话到了别人那成了个笑话，不如让它直接烂在心里，自己消化。
Something is not a knot, but a scar. The knot can be untied, but the scar is always there. It"s better to let it rot in the heart and digest itself than to pour out the truth to others and make it a joke.
十五、时间真的是这世界上最好的跨度，让惨痛变得苍白，让执着的人选择离开，然后历经沧桑人来人往，你会明白，万般皆是命，半点不由人！
Time is really the best span in the world, making the pain pale, letting the persistent people choose to leave, and then through the vicissitudes of human contact, you will understand that everything is fate, not a bit by human!
十六、我不希望有人选择我是因为我的好，我需要有人看见我的不好，而仍旧想要我。
I don"t want people to choose me because I"m good. I need people to see my bad and still want me.
十七、如果不能在一起，就不要给对方任何希望任何暗示，这才是最大的担当；分开了，不去打搅让对方安然生活，这才是最后的温柔。
If you can"t be together, don"t give each other any hope or hint, this is the greatest responsibility; separated, do not disturb each other to live safely, this is the last gentleness.
十八、成长就是，从前我难过的时候，油盐不进，茶饭不思；现在，能一边流泪一边去厨房给自己下碗面，还不忘加俩荷包蛋。
Growing up is that when I was sad, oil and salt didn"t go in, and I didn"t think about tea and rice; now, I can go to the kitchen to lay bowls of noodles while crying, and I don"t forget to add two pocket eggs.
十九、每晚睡前，原谅所有的人和事。闭上眼睛，清理你的心，过去的就让它过去吧。
Forgive everyone and everything before going to bed every night. Close your eyes, clear your heart, let bygones be bygones.
二十、忙忙碌碌地生活着真挺好的，根本没时间伤春悲秋，每天的念头就只有，干完今天的活就可以睡觉啦。
It"s good to live a busy life. There"s no time to grieve for spring and autumn. Every day, the only idea is to go to bed after today"s work.
二十一、愿你，沉定又执着，对每件热爱的事物都全力以赴又满载而归，变成一个美好的人，做美好的事。
May you, calm and persistent, go all out to everything you love and return with a full load, become a good person and do good things.
二十二、别老想着“以后还来得及”，有一天你会发现，有些人，有些事，真的会来不及。
Don"t dwell on “it"s too late in the future.” One day you will find that some people, some things, really will be too late.
