停下来看一看周围，是不是你想要的样子，停下来看一看风景，是不是你所向往的方向。
Stop to have a look around, whether it"s what you want, stop to have a look at the scenery, whether it"s the direction you want.
结局往往都是无法预料的，而能够掌握结局的是一次次选择。
The outcome is often unpredictable, and can grasp the outcome is a choice.
现在的你可能会觉得很难堪，是因为你还没有找到自己的方向，找到人生的方向。
Now you may feel very embarrassed, because you have not found your own direction, to find the direction of life.
别把自己的人生当作一个限定字，所有的一切都是未知的。
Don"t take your life as a determiner, everything is unknown.
别指望任何人能够让你的生活变得快乐，所有的快乐都取决于你自己。
Don"t expect anyone to make your life happy. All happiness is up to you.
权衡利弊去判断一件事情的时候，你就应该考虑好所有的后果。
When weighing the pros and cons to judge a thing, you should consider all the consequences.
如果你因为心软而将就，能为你自己人生买单的只有自己。
If you make do with it because you are soft hearted, you are the only one who can pay for your own life.
有时候还是现实一点比较好，只要你的人生才能够更圆满。
Sometimes it"s better to be realistic, as long as your life can be more complete.
那些无所谓的遗憾，在经过时间的考量之后，我变成无所谓。
Those indifferent regrets, after the consideration of time, I become indifferent.
别耗着了，看一看远方吧，有没有什么是值得你去做的事情。
Don"t waste it. Take a look at the distance. Is there anything worth doing.
这些埋在心里的秘密，不要去深究了，你能找到了自己不想接受的事情。
These buried in the heart of the secret, do not go deep into, you can find the things you do not want to accept.
当你能够掌握一些话语权的时候，并不代表你就是最厉害的那个人，不要因为自己的生命中的小光芒，就沾沾自喜。
When you can have some say, it doesn"t mean that you are the most powerful person. Don"t be complacent because of the little light in your life.
